Romantic'Freedom'

"All the world's a stage, And all the men and women merely players".When the time of the most common expression for human philosophy comes in one's mind,erupts this message out of sudden and nowhere.However,the ease,with which this statements devise all our actions a mere play,may offend many people who feel they are serious enough for everything in life..take for example,'Romance'..In terms of Oscar Wilde,"Romance is the privilege of rich,not the profession of unemployed".And a lot many times has it happened,that all those who feel they are in love and they are romancing these days should oppose it.For them,love has nothing to do with money.
However,it's money which has everything to do with romance,if not love.From purchasing leisure for romance to paying for accomodation for romance.From feeding the lovers to nurturing them throughout the time and beyond.And yet,why no one comes up with this truth that yes,"Romance needs more of heart and less of money." But then my dear friends,the crux of this is just a part of the complete story.How many of us really do indulge in romance with the sense of attaining freedom of thought and mind?Everyone loves freedom and wants to enjoy it.But on the price of their inmates.So,things like Love-marriage is truly baseless as it no-doubt curbs the freedom of romancing as many poeple u like.
In breif,we romance with those whom we like.Now the sense of freedom should encourage us to go for romancing with all those whom we like,beyond the boundaries of age bars,caste bars and sex bars!And certainly then,there should be a number of them..(I gues romancing with three different people a day can engage one's knowledge of all the people whom he or she knows and love to romance with)... The most important question arises,is that of affording so many romantic stories!!nothing comes free,nor does romance!Therefore,the concept of romance,which says its enjoying ur freedom fails here because u r following some constraints of number to fulfill the conditions for the freedom of romance.
This is still affordable with some,maybe but that means the poor should never think about it.Well then,the most contradictory question comes out of this romance thing is the concept of marriage post-romance.Does it require to get married with someone with whom u r romancing with?If yes,then how many people will u marry.
This all may sound kind of self-generated story of absurdity but my dear friends,I would recommend u to ask ur romancing partners,what do they think about you when they think over post-romance session?Do they allow you to go for more than one romance experiences than one with you?if not,then why not?Aren't you both are free to enjoy your freedom of thought and taste and expression.You seek happiness and you find it with someone and then you go along with him/her.What in case u find someone more people 'at par' with your thoughts?Whats wrong in romancing them??
Come out of this fundamental of commitment towards one person..You are free for everything.Don't bind yourself to the clutches of your romantic partner.
I know this blog,when read by many will invite unprecedented and hating remarks but who cares.You will understand if I'll bring you some of the success stories about such ideas of romantic freedom minus the commitment.So,whatever you think before commenting here,Just think once.

Ol' flicks...got new!

Ok pals,the next best thing recommended by me are few of the hollywood famous stuff...I saw them while Holi break in IIT Delhi...had I got the chance, would have gone for more...Still to start with,"To Kill A Mockingbird"..fabulous film which is not complete copy of the same story by Harper Lee but whatever is shown in the movie,has been a good depiction of the novel and the recommendation goes not only for this but for fetching Gregory Peck his oscar for the movie...Then comes "In the name of the father"..this Daniel Day Lewis movie was nominated for oscars alongwith "Philadelphia"...But this movie,by far has been best over the IRA issue...even better than much acclaimed "The Devils Own"...and then I saw a completely different movie starrign Edward Norton."The American History X"..this was a marvellous drama about the american society and the neo-nazis living up there...and last but not the least,I saw "The Memento"...A completely different thriller for the reason that it runs from end to start...and no doubt,it has been rated The best Thriller of 2001...
So,budddies whenever,u land into this oppurtunity of landing into movie world,just try to have any of them...to have some good and fats pacing time with the movies....No doubt,I'll be coming up with the next issue of my filmi magazine sooner...till then,keep watching this space...

Long Time No See

Sorry friends and enemies..but it had been real long time since I had the oppurtunity to write about the latest happening with me...But actually this time something in real was happening..I was out in New Delhi spending Holi and i stayed at my friend's room in IIT.."So,whats happening in it? " The happening things were really happening when I didn't sleep for two consecutive days,relying totally on the stack of movies available on the LAN there and the 24hr provison of tea,coffee and so many things out in Nescafe corners and the freedom to smoke in the hostel...It was nice vacation,at the end with one week stay in New Delhi and meeting pals like Piyush and DJ and Matthias and Anuj and Varun and my friends Achal and Abhinav after some gap...
On return trip,there were stories of Akshit Singh and then Anand kapai to add thrill at the end...But then my friends,the ultimate killing machine was waiting for me here in TIET.And that was the second mid-semester exams...Poor me has managed to go for nothing but grim effort towards 2 papers yet...
However,the news for all of you,concerning me is that I'm leaving for Allahabad on 5 May to attend the call of Indian Millitary Academy to join them after SSB...Lets see what can I make it there...1 day dream or 5 days ordeal!!!However,pals sooner,will come up with more news and happening things..till then keep watching this space.thanks for your patience buddies...

Long weekend round-down!

Sorry for remaining absent from the Blog world for this long duration...but I'd been facing the most grualling weekend and it all started when our college organized Sports meet,demanding our escape from the college for that day..So,I along with Harsh and Manyu and Whisky flew to chandigarh on Bhalla Jet and on 2 March,saw 'Black'.It was a nice movie,especially for amitabh fans like me and manyu.However,among other of my exploits on the same day,I purchased a lot of music cassettes,which include Scorpions (Millenium),Rod Stewart(Best of Rod Stewart),KennyG(KennyGreatest Hits),Del Amitri(Hatful of rain,Best of Del Amitri) and 3 cassette compilation of Best of College Classics.
But before I could make any move into the music world of these cassettes,came the last call for all the committees in Acumen.since I was Convenor of the Magazine Committee,I along with Abhishek Sharma,Kanv Gandhi and Raveesh Laroia started working on the issues for Sunday since friday night and everything went smooth till Monday,when there were usual complaints about the messages published in the magazine regarding few girls.However,we managed to bring the issue of Monday by assuring that no messages will be displayed on tuesday's issue.But the joker was hidden in Monday's issue as the couple of the day.This column was filled by the name of Shivani and Mayank.Now for all those who don't know them,it's the same Sunny Bir's sister,that lunatic long hair hyper girl and Mayank is his latest companion from second year.
She brought along with her a companion Ridhima from Final year and soon the hell got lose on abhishek Sharma,who was finding hard to speak to apologize amidst all the obscene words used by both Shivani and Ridhima.The flair of the thrill experienced on monday evening can't be explained here but it has a seperated charm to be narrated...
But then what got to be the conclusion of it?Yes My dear friends,for the first time in heard history of Acumen,our committee members went on to the stage and apologized,if our messages published hurt any student.It was a real surprise package as the entire event took place after dumb charade got over and we appeared behind the closed curtains and started apologizing.Now since the crowd hates all the male hosts,therefore,everyone thought we're up for some filler item and therefore,before anyone went for observing what we are conveying,we had our snap taken by the official camera man,thinking that thins will fetch him 4 candidates for these photgraphs and even the senior guys,who were helping us to sort the problem started clapping for us and we came down the stage...So,such a hyped case went away like nothing but making us all heroes.The next days issue was decided that won't be published,but thanks to Ashish Gupta,the senior citizen of our college who encouraged and both of us brought back life in the third issue of the magazine.and this was welcomed by everyone...
Now I've got a serious back ache and therefore,am spending time listening Del Amitri and Scorpions and Kenny G and Rod Stewart.some of them are really good numbers and when I'll be done with my homework of listening all my collection,I'll come up with a brief review on it.

Taxi driver (part II) How Taxi driver evolves?

Interpretation,by far has been a low key,double-edged sword in terms of it's implications and in context of it's associativity in human life.All the consequences,all the acts,be it in terms of development of communication system,or improvement of psychology of a normal human being or change in his/her philosophies about whatever is perceived by him/her is the result of one's interpretation.The most serious problem we face is that we overlook this act of interpretation as natural but the main motive I guess for every mature human being should be to control this act of interpreattion by the parameters of the situation...
If this thing does not go through easily,look in this way....
In one of the examples portrayed by my friend Mr.Wadhera once,he said 'Randomization is God'.
what can be the various interpretations..'God is most powerful','God doesn't like management','God likes uncertainity','God is the second name of surprise'...exactly the God fearing people will interpret the same thing in different manner with the other such kind of persons,depending upon the situation they stand...in need or in luxury...
If you ask a friend to come along for dinner...he replies'Sorry buddy!Kinda busy today with some work,kindly adjust',u think 'fine,he's really busy',simply going onw aht u said...
if u get the same reply from ur girlfriend,u may turn up thinking 'she's no more interested in me',if u r in bad mood or if u have waited for her too long and she didn't show up..or u may understand,'she's real busy'!!!
and if ur parents deny ur request,u simply think,'they don't love me as much they did before'..
So the basic requirement,is to bring a common platform for our thinking,far and away from the conditions around us.The tough and strong is one who thinks and does a thing of principle...never thinking of consequences going in his/her favour...who keeps various interpretations of others actions at times and then,determines the reason for the step taken by other person,as to why the other person interpreted the things in that way...
It's the key to understand so many phenomenons in life...to boost ur result in academics,to improve ur performance in sports,to make progress in business and so many fields including family matters and friends and all other spheres of life...think about it..if u know how...I pray u may follow this idea too successfully..
This is the step towards understanding our Taxi Driver (circa 1975.Cast Robert De Niro)

Thanksgiving!

Life is never gonna be simpler without friends.A lot of examples has been protrayed yet by many and the saga continues....Today too I got obliged to my friend Mr.Wadhera who helped me out to come up with the solution of this problem and hey everyone...now u have got a responsibilty my friends,don't miss the chance to Post ur cooments out here in this page,coz who knows,who gets affected and influenced by your charming or notorious thoughts!!
Nothing happening here pals..Just the papers have got over and now it's time to Disco..however,we've always been in disco this semester...So,am cruising through some movies,old and new..watched Three Kings,Casino and Insan...No sane!!
Since,everyone is on leave post exam,much of the calamities on us will fall,when all will be here..but still till then,don't wait and just write on whatever and u feel like about the posts,posted above...

Taxi Driver (part-1) How talents develop?

Gone r the days when life was simple n people had a lot of leisure.Leisure is something which has always encouraged people to handle the jobs,they love to do,to pursue their intrest n to think creatively.Unfortunately,this idea has now being killed by different concepts.Leisure n it's utilization is the work of unemployed.The importance of a person is now weighed by his/her ability to materialize the fourth dimension out of the seven,TIME,to the maximum of its profit.All those who indulge in serious business of making monetary profit from their alloted time are called successful while those who keep their thought n mind involved in doing things to which they r passionately attached r considered escapist.
This is the reason that music in India as a profession of young n old took so much time to develop.Be it the Bollywood where since 1930's only mature n experienced singers n musicians survived,got a break in 1972 when Shailendra at the age of 17,made history by composing n singing the very famous 'Bobby' number,'Main Shayar To Nahin'.However,the real breakthrough in it's complete establishment came with 'Papa Kehte Hain' by Udit Narayan in 'QSQT'.But now,every Tom,Dick n Harry is making way to this industry in wake of churning out money.Result is again,generation of distaste among the serious admirers n loss of opportunity for the serious aspirers.
Even at times like 1950's,when Yamlajatt of Punjab,was the only famous singer in Punjab,was condemned as lunatic,though he's an LLB by profession.Today,his songs r remixed n resung.
Talent has the Biggest tragedy attached to it....It comes to few and it comes before the time,everyone is capable to accept it.

First Post

Haan be t**te.... yeh raha tera blog.

How It Began??

....And said Father,
"It’s not time to make a change,
Just relax, take it easy.
You’re still young, that’s your fault,
There’s so much you have to know."
Remember Cat Stevens??
Well,that song I guess was heard by my father before I could get a chance to and that led to some other serious catastrophe...I'm kind of survivor,reaching to it's topmost level any sooner..I'm dependable for you all...and I'm all on myself...Just remember,I've given all my time and thoughts for almost every friend,who has come in acquiantance with me...Ask them anytime...and this friend of few asks now to come and join me in this new experience of blogging!!
Let's share,things u know and what u want to know with whats there with me...
I'm all impatient,excited and waiting....
Come,write and conquer!!!